Thursday, February 9, 2023

“… living your best life…”



 

Living your best life


Employer he asked 

No retired

Living you best life he said 

First response, hmm I don’t know

Got me thinking how many times and seasons in my life

Really have been living my best life


Transience 

lasting only for a short time

The transience of life and happiness

“Should we try to live forever…

What once was will never be again…

The question is: how are we supposed to live such an unthinkable thing?….

… longing, and maybe even mortality itself, are a unifying force, a pathway to love; and that our greatest and most difficult task is learning how to walk it.”*



Red Roadmaster bike riding till sundown 

Last day of school till summer vacation 

Waiting at the bus stop finding out you have a snow day 

No phones or alerts 

just waited in the bus shanty till the bus didn’t show

Time, passing especially quickly 

Living your best life 



Building a log cabin in grade school during recess 

Back then we could bring hatchets to school on the bus 

Maypole on Mayday 

and huge bell in the tower, pulling the rope ringing the end of recess

Junior high clubs, friendships still make you smile 

First kiss on school bus, playing spin the comb, unforgettable 

Transient beauty

Living your best life 



Girlfriend, summer days lakeside Heartbreak love songs on AM radio

Transitory, now gone with the wind 

College field trips with best friends back then, moonlight walk

Wallops Island and Chincoteague

Bound to change, pass, come to an end

Hotel California playing in the bar while playing pool together 

No thought to the reason we were there

Living your best life



First job you thought you hit a gold mine 

later to find

First love, brown eyed, girl, dressed in white, cross on her cap, black band stripe, hair tucked tight

Until one day saw her hair down at Sheetz,

Dressed attractively and her eyes 

we fell in love and in faith

Wedding day dancing, surrounded by those who love us

Gowns and tux, flowers and class

Fleeting, time appears to transiently continue on 

Living your best life 



Children’s birth 

Good night moon 

Really did have it all

Grade school teachers conference 

Junior high assemblies and Senior high concerts, sports and plays 

Summer days oh, let them never end

Graduation days high school

Graduation day College, Grad school

Visitors passing through a place with only a brief stay

Living their best life 



Sojourn to Wedding days 

Ski vacations

Beach vacations

Wakes and laying to rest

Visiting from sea to sea

Saying goodbye

Grandchildren each so different

Retirement

After school kids 

Living your best life again and again



“Take chances, take risks, 

Try to appreciate the things you do have, 

Surround yourself with people that bring out the best 

Happiest moments among the most mundane times 

Affecting something or producing results beyond itself

Transient beauty

Living your best life again


Living your best life, Glimpse poetry by Joe Holuta


About this Poem: Living your best life is about the transience of life and happiness and how each part of life is so good. Reflecting on childhood memories, high school and the first kiss, college and the first love, thoughts of love at first sight and young married life. Children and the years between birth, college, marriage to grandchildren. Family vacation for nearly 40 years and the blessing and change of retirement. And of course, the loss of those we love, the missing and memory. Living your best life is truly appreciating what you have and those you have around you, all times you live, knowing that this beauty transcends this brief life. - Joe Holuta



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